Bad Boy Vs Good Man - Does Love Have Anything To Do With Being A Bad Boy Compared To A Nice Guy?

Well, we have all seen that myth - that "nice guys" do not make it and the 'bad boys" appeal to women - but I don't think it is necessarily true.

At least I don't believe it has anything to do with being a bad boy compared to a nice guy.

I believe there are other personality factors involved that perhaps bad boys and nice guys have that are the establishing qualities of attraction.

Bad boys usually are less shy, but in addition they are more confident in general than nice guys. I think that it would be these personalities that are attracting a woman not the aspect that a guy is bad.

I personally do not use the "bad boy" technique when attracting women, I am always a perfect gentleman. But, I am not an easy guy to hook and women can tell that quickly when talking to me. I am a little aloof, I don't compliment women when I initially meet them or tell them how attractive they are, and most women don't have any idea as to whether I am fascinated with them or just being good.

That is what sets me apart from a "nice guy". Women see me as a good gentleman but haven't a clue if I love them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - enjoy that. They are sick and tired of meeting men who praise them.

Girls like guys who are alluring and unique. Attractive girls don't find boys who tell them how beautiful they are to be special. But a guy who has an enjoyable conversation with them without mentioning a word about their beauty verbally or non-verbally - now that is both appealing and unique to a beautiful girl.

Also do not forget that women have different personalities. And what one thinks is interesting and unique differs from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking lady may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how beautiful she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a community of perfect gentlemen, might very well see a guy who talks a little nasty and naughty to be interesting and special. A woman who knows nothing but arrogant and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be an unusual interesting and unique find.

You see no matter what you are like there is a person for you. But you have to identify who that someone would be and then try to expand how you would meet persons like that. So regardless of if you are a bad boy or a nice guy, put yourself in a state where you are interesting and different to the women you come across and you will be successful.

One of the most difficult things to learn in life is that irrespective of what you are like there is definitely someone who is perfectly suitable to you. Even if you are dull there are women who are perfectly compatible with that. Not every one likes to meet and hook up with the life of the gathering.

The problem is people who don't acknowledge themselves for who they are, try to act differently and they are not being themselves, so they don't entice anyone. Now if you just believe in yourself for who you are and act the way you actually are, you will realize that there are people who will accept you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are unexciting or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will get a girl who will accept you for who you are.

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